Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Welcome to the Old Ho's Home.

I came across this on CNN and couldn't help myself. I can understand homes for the elderly where they can retire to and have care, food, and assistance, but never have I heard or seen a home for retired prostitutes.

I watched the news clip and almost fell out of my chair laughing when it stated they had nothing but "dignity" left after working into what I would estimate to be her 70's as a flesh peddler. I'm not sure how there could be a lot of dignity left when she had to use only 1st floor hotel rooms because of her walker. I know, harsh, I should be more compassionate towards a woman who was working the streets at her age. I agree, I should, but I'm more bothered by the possibility that this woman most likely has kids and grand kids who are not stepping up to aid and support her.

My mom is a single mother struggling at 44 to raise my 4 year old brother. I'm not in a position to provide her with much assistance as I am a single dad who is raising two kids of my own, but there is absolutely no fathomable way that I could ever allow my mother to be in that position. She lives in an apartment in Illinois, I'm here in Texas, but you can bet if things get much tougher for her, I'll be moving her down here to live with me so she can get ahead.

Families struggle every day and it's not always easy to help the ones we love. Sometimes there is just not the money to do it, but can it not be reduced from currency to aid very easily? For my mom to move in with me would slightly alter my living expenses, but not to the extreme that she would have to turn to moral turpitude to survive. I'm coming to a loss for words over the seventy year old prostitute with a walker.

The housing is government provided, how does that fit in well in an under-developed county that could easily use that funding to aid other social development programs?

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Dog training.

I've been working with my pup recently. Stewie is 6 months old and has been avoiding chasing a ball like the plague so I went to Academy Sports and picked up a couple of dummies for him. So far his favorite is the Remington with wings.

He's a natural, he's taken well to retrieving and has a light carry already. I've given him some real dove wings and he carries them around with out eating them. A soft carry and a willingness to please are making him easy to train and a GREAT gun dog.

Sounds don't spook him, and he's great at marking his "bird" with distraction and bringing it back. He's a natural dropper, about a foot shy of where I stand.

I couldn't be happier with him. He'll be studding soon, so get your female ready if you're interested. It is the middle of the season now, happy hunting to everyone!

Friday, October 12, 2007

Don't Block My Sunlight!

This is odd for me because I am not a poetic or artsy person, but here goes.

Life is a garden in which we are all a part. Each grden is a life and there is constant overlap. As the seasons change and the years go on we cycle what we grow in order to keep the soil fertile and insure a solid foundation and continued growth.

With every garden weeds find their way in. Some are beautiful worthwhile, the distract bugs and animals from tearing down the flowers, fruits and vegetables, but after a while they spread like an infection and overtake the garden leaving nothing but rubble and malnourished soil.

My life is a garden, I am both the garnder and a tree in the garden. I have planted and sowed many plants in my life that have been a flash in time, a seasonal plant that goes as life progresses, but as the tree, I will always remain in the garden and as the gardner I will choose what flowers, plants and trees compliment each other. An ecosystem must have balance and I am seeking balance all the way through it. For beauty, for stability, and for growth.

As I'm cultivating this garden, don't block my sunlight or your tree, plant, flower will be cut down.